I’m AFAB pansexual: How do I talk to girls/femmes?!

By Elena Beets and Melody Thomas

“If you’re gonna put yourself out there in that way… You’ll want to do a little bit of thinking around how you cope with rejection, and making sure that you’re in a place where if someone is not into it you can be like ‘Cool, that’s not me’.”

Elena and Melody chat about telling babes they look hot in a sexy NON-PLATONIC way, dealing with rejection and ways to overcome the ‘friend trap’.

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