I’m AFAB pansexual: How do I talk to girls/femmes?!

“If you’re gonna put yourself out there in that way… You’ll want to do a little bit of thinking around how you cope with rejection, and making sure that you’re in a place where if someone is not into it you can be like ‘Cool, that’s not me’.”

Elena and Melody chat about telling babes they look hot in a sexy NON-PLATONIC way, dealing with rejection and ways to overcome the ‘friend trap’.

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Season 2 of Horny on Main is out now on your favourite podcast platform.

Horny on Main

Melody Thomas and Elena Beets unpack and explore the complicated and messy territories of sex, love and intimacy.