The software engineer on a dating bender | Dating While Asian

How much does wanting external validation factor into who you choose to date?

Victor is one year into a situationship, and going on a dating bender to try and fill the void. 

Spoiler alert: it doesn’t work.

He explores the deeper reasons why he’s been chasing “pale, petite art hoes” and why he used to value dating white women.

❤️‍?Dating While Asian is a 5-part docuseries where pan-Asian New Zealanders share their sweet, messy and horny dating stories.

Made with the support of NZ On Air.

More stories from Dating While Asian: 

How to realise you’re not actually attracted to men | Dating While Asian

Watch the fifth episode of Dating While Asian now.

Grace returns to her Chinese roots after a breakup | Dating While Asian

Watch the first episode of Dating While Asian now ❤️‍?

Shaneel Lal wants to get sluttier | Dating While Asian

Experiencing love (or a fun hoe phase) shouldn’t feel like a privilege.

Dating While Asian

Pan-Asian New Zealanders tell their sweet, messy, horny stories – this time, on their own terms.