"Our girls, we have to make sure they stay a virgin." Kesaia's mum Liliani wanted to raise her in New Zealand as a "proper Tongan girl". Now, Kesaia is an adult and a mum herself. She sits down with her mum to reflect on her upbringing and untangle what it means to be a Tongan woman when you’ve lived all your life outside of the Pacific kingdom. Does her mum still feel the same way?
Conversations With My Immigrant Parents is a podcast and video series where parents and children learn about each other anew, and confront those complex issues that are deepened by differences in generation and culture.
Made possible by the RNZ/NZ On Air Innovation Fund.